Tuesday, August 25, 2015

El Nino 97 - 98

Data related to last BIG ENino

'98 El Nino  (Charts of data relating to Dec 97 - Feb 98)

It was the winter of 1997-1998 when the granddaddy of El Niños — the one by which all other El Niños are judged — vaulted the climate term to household name status. It had such a noticeable impact on U.S. weather that it appeared everywhere from news coverage of mudslides in Southern California to Chris Farley’s legendary sketch on “Saturday Night Live.” Basically, it was the “polar vortex” of the late ‘90s.
So it’s no wonder that it is the touchstone event that people think of when they hear that name. And naturally, as the current El Niño event has gained steam, the comparisons to 1997 have been increasingly bandied about.
The most recent came this week in the form of an image from the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration that compares satellite shots of warm Pacific Ocean waters — a hallmark of El Niño — from this June to November 1997, when that El Niño hit its peak.

A comparison of sea surface temperatures between July 2015 and November 1997. (NOAA) 
    On the one hand, the two are comparable given that 1997 was the strongest El Niño on record and, at the moment, the best science indicates that the current event could match or rival that one — at least in terms of ocean temperatures. But on the other hand, each El Niño event is its own beast, the product of conditions in the ocean and atmosphere, of climate and weather that are unique in that particular place and time.
    In the, albeit very short, modern record of El Niños, “we cannot find a single El Niño event that tracked like another El Niño event,” Michelle L’Heureux, a forecaster with NOAA’s Climate Prediction Center, said.
    Forecasters like L’Heureux cringe at comparisons because there’s no guarantee the impacts of one El Niño will be just like that of a previous one, even if they look broadly similar. And it’s those impacts — like potential rains in drought-stricken California — that most really care about.

    Stormy Weather

    El Niño is not, as Farley’s sketch had it, an individual storm, like a hurricane. Rather it is a shift in the background state of the climate brought about by the sloshing of warm ocean water from its normal home in the western tropical Pacific over to the east. That redistribution affects how and where ocean heat is emitted into the atmosphere, which can alter the normal patterns of winds and stormy weather in the region.
    Those more local shifts can telegraph through the atmosphere and, in the case of the U.S., can alter the position of the jet stream over the country during the winter months, typically leading to wetter-than-normal conditions over the southern tier of states and warmer temperatures over the north.
    Those are the effects of El Niño very broadly speaking, though. Such teleconnections, as they are called, tend to be more reliable when the El Niño is a strong one.
    Such was the case with both the strong events of 1997-1998 and 1982-1983. January and February 1998 were the wettest and warmest first two months to a year for the contiguous U.S. in the 104-year record at that time, according to NOAA. The position of the jet stream meant that some northern states saw temperatures up to 15 degrees above normal and both the Southeast and Southern California were awash in a series of storms.

    The climate impacts typically associated with an El Niño during the months of December, January, and February. (NOAA) 
      In California, the rains were so unrelenting that they led to mudslides that caused houses to crumble off disintegrating cliffs and racked up hundreds of millions of dollars in damages.
      With California now five years into a debilitating drought that has led to the first statewide water restrictions in its history, some El Niño-fueled rains (if not the more damaging aspects) may be quite welcome right now.
      But here’s the thing: Those two strong El Niños that saw heavy winter rains in California are only that, a sample of two. In science, that’s too small a pool to make any firm conclusions, L’Heureux said.

      ‘Not the Only Ball Game’

      There are other factors, from the inherent chaos of the atmosphere, to other large-scale climate signals, that can potentially override any push provided by El Niño.
      This is exactly what happened with the El Niño of 2009-2010, which while it wasn’t as strong as 1997, was still significant. But other climate signals helped blunt its effects in the U.S., particularly in terms of temperatures, L’Heureux said. Events like that make forecasters cautious about comparing the current El Niño to 1997. (NOAA acknowledged as much by changing out the original image it used and noting that it did so to avoid confusion).
      “We think that the strength of [El Niño] is important,” L’Heureux said, but the exact strength it achieves is no guarantee of impacts similar to 1997, “and that’s simply because there’s other stuff going on,” she said. “El Niño is not the only ball game in town.”
      So where does that leave us in terms of looking ahead to what El Niño might bring this winter? We have an event that islooking more and more robust (when comparing June 2015 to June 1997, the broad ocean temperature patterns are very similar) and forecasting models are in pretty good agreement that that event will strengthen as we head towards winter and El Niño’s typical peak. But exactly when it will peak and what its final strength will be is still uncertain. Even more uncertain is what those other influences on U.S. weather will be.
      So what forecasters can say for now is that the likelihood of those typical El Niño impacts, including rains in Southern California, are higher, but exactly where those rains might fall isn’t yet known.
      One factor that may influence that is the remarkable pool of very warm waters that has been parked off the West Coast for a couple years now, a feature that was not present back in 1997. That feature could impact the typical changes El Niño brings to the jet stream, Daniel Swain, a PhD student in climate science at Stanford University, said in an email. It is possible that if the El Niño builds up enough strength, it could overcome that influence, though, he added.
      “If El Niño really does make [it] into record territory during the coming winter, it's hard to envision California not experiencing a wetter-than-average winter, at least to some degree,” he said.
      The only real guarantee that forecasters can make, though, is that this El Niño event “will evolve in its own way,” L’Heureux said. “It may be similar to certain past events,” but it won’t be exactly the same.


      WFC Breakfast


      What's for breakfast???
      Here are my suggestions.
      1. 2 Scrambled eggs-add lots of veggies and just a pinch of cheese a piece of whole wheat toast
      2. Steel cut oats, w/sunflower seeds , a pinch of brown sugar, and blueberries
      3. Shakeology
      These are all great options that are fast, healthy, and filling

      WFC - Prepping


      Sunday is usually my prep day! Here is a long post about prepping and planning...It takes a while to get into the habit if you're anything like me. So start small and work up to it!
      WHAT EXACTLY IS MEAL PREPPING?For those of you who are unfamiliar with the term, essentially it is planning and prepping your meals in advance for the week. This means cooking items in bulk and eating leftovers! For those of you who just groaned and are turned off to the thought of left overs, listen up, I used to hate left overs. Now I enjoy them and you should too! Left overs are a fabulous time saver!
      Before beginning any meal prep, I advise you to have a plethora of containers on hand, you are going to need them! If you want to go hog wild, I suggest buying containers of similar sizes/shapes so you can easily stack them in your fridge, making your meal prep more space efficient so your fridge doesn't become a war zone. If containers just aren't possible, use ziplock baggies.
      Beginner's Guide to Meal Prep:
      PLAN AND PREP Please remember, I am not a nutritionist, dietician, or personal trainer, this is just what works best for me and my body. Everyone's idea of "healthy" varies, and that is okay! See a meat, veggie, or starch on here I didn't list? It's probably because I have never tried it or don't care for it, this is just my go to list!
      HOW TO:- Pick one day a week as your "plan and prep" day- Grocery shop on this day as well!-Sunday is the day I use
      PLAN
      1. Plan your meals for the week using the following guideline:- Protein + Starch + Vegetable (and be making sure to get your healthy fats in!)
      2. Check your pantry to make sure you have all the ingredients for all recipes before hand!
      3. Add any needed items to the shopping list
      PREP
      1. Grocery shop for the week
      2. Peel, chop, cut all raw veggies for the week to put in lunch or to have as a snack(Healthy choices are easier to make when they're ready to be eaten!)
      3. Repeat the process for any fruit that requires cutting to be eaten
      4. Prep your protein/meals (see below) - Make specific meals to eat as alternating left overs- Make items to store in the freezer and eat at a later time- Make your meat "basic" to be used in a variety of ways through out the week.
      Now, you can take prepping as far as you want to.
      You can:
      1. Cook enough protein, veggies, starches to eat for the week (keeping these items basic will make them more versatile to use during the week) OR
      2.Cook two meals to generate enough meals to alternate for the week (five days of dinners)(the weekend is always a free for all for me because I know I'll be home)
      MEAT PREP
      Preparing- Make ground beef/ ground turkey items and freeze for a later date
      Cooking - cook as much of your protein that you would like to have for the week.
      Grill or bake chicken in bulk with a variety of seasonings to switch up the flavor during the week.
      Use your crockpot! You can Cook chicken in the crockpot and use it to add to recipes for the week .
      Hard boil enough eggs for the week as a lunch option or go to protein based snack
      SNACKS
      Portion all snacks and have them labeled for your days. KEEP your breakfast and snacks for the same day place together in fridge. If you use a lunch box it will be easier to pack when the days are grouped together. Same goes for lunch keep all meals for the same day grouped together in the fridge.
      NOTES/TIPS- When I meal prep, I meal prep in two ways, based on my schedule for the week:
      1. Basic Meal Prep. I make all of my lean proteins very "basic" so they are more versatile for eating through out the week. For example, I will cook my ground turkey with only garlic powder, or grill my chicken with just seasoning as opposed to a marinade. Or I bake four different types of marinated chickens at the same time using aluminum foil and creating dividers in the baking pan, so while I am still eating chicken all week long, it is a variety of flavors! I do all my cutting up of vegetables and fruits on this day, in addition to cooking all of my protein, starches, and veggies!
      2. Meal Prep Dinner Based. I do all my cutting up of vegetables and fruits on Sunday, and cook one of my meals, ensuring I have enough to eat for that night, and Monday, and one other day one of my meals, ensuring I have enough to eat for that night, and Monday, and one other day during the week. Then, on Tuesday I will cook because I have time, for that night, and one or two other days of the week. I cook twice to ensure a rotating schedule of left overs so I do not become sick of what I am eating. This is a "dinner based" meal prep, meaning I will eat the same two dinners through out the week, on alternating days.
      BREAKFAST I prep my oatmeal for the week or five days at a time.
      MAKE YOUR LUNCH THE NIGHT BEFORE HAND, or even multiple nights in advance! Prepping lunch ahead of time is much less work on you and ensures you have a nutritious and delicious lunch to fuel you through the day .
      When buying ground meat, make your patties, etc. ahead of time while the meat is already defrosted so you can freeze them in bulk and pull them out to use at a later date. If the meat is already "prepped" then all you need to do is simply cook it to enjoy its' deliciousness.
      STORING ITEMS:After items are prepped, place each meal into a container to store in refrigerator so easy use. If you don't have containers, you can put breakfast, lunch and dinner items in ziplock baggies, with each day that item is used (i.e. Monday, Wednesday, Friday) labeled. That way all you have to do is pop it in the microwave and you’re done on that particular day.
      DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU:Everyone meal preps at different intensities or "levels" I will call them. The level of meal prep depends on their schedule, health goals and time willing to dedicate to prepping. For example, I consider myself an intermediate meal prepper, since I prep for usually four to five days worth of dinner, a few days of breakfast, and all my healthy snacks. An advanced prepper would be an individual who has all meals and snacks, and freezer preps done in advance for the entire week.
      Remember, do what works best for you though, if cooking everything at once on Sunday is too much because that's your day of rest, pick two days to meal prep then, this is what I do sometimes!
      Need more assistance? Just ask questions below.

      El Nino 2015-2016

      Climatology

      Childbirth

      The genesis of El Niño couples events that are half a world from each other

      EL NIÑO is part of a wider climate system called El Niño Southern Oscillation, in which the Pacific Ocean and the atmosphere above it influence each other. This interaction drives the warming and cooling of the equatorial Pacific, which in turn affects the weather elsewhere in the world.
      The process starts with surface water, propelled westward across the ocean by trade winds and heated by the sun as it travels, running into the Philippines, the Malay Archipelago and New Guinea. Over the course of between two and seven years the pool of warm water thus created grows into something with an area of about 12m km{+2} (4.6m square miles). Balmy, humid air rises from the pool, cooling and shedding rain as it does so, as part of a phenomenon called the Walker circulation (see chart). Some of this air travels west, where it irrigates Indonesia with its precipitation. Some travels east, discharging its load on the Pacific, and then sinks back to the surface near the coast of South America, replacing the air that has travelled west as the trade winds.
      As the pool of warm water grows, the ocean’s surface rises. This means the western equatorial Pacific’s surface can be up to 30cm higher than that of its eastern counterpart. Take the trade winds away, though, and this mountain of water will collapse and start spreading east. That collapse and spread is the essence of El Niño.too. The movement of warm water towards the Pacific’s west draws cool water to the surface in its east. This process, known as upwelling, lifts nutrients from the dark ocean bed to sunlit levels where they can be absorbed by planktonic algae and thus support one of the world’s richest sources of wild protein, the Peruvian anchoveta fishery.
      To a large extent, the pooled warm waters of the Pacific west are the author of their own destruction. Once their surface temperature exceeds 26.5°C, cyclones can form. These sap the trade winds’ energy, and thus their ability to keep the raised pool intact. The result is that the whole system quickly fails, the warm water sloshes back towards South America, and the Boy is born.
      Higher-than-usual sea-surface temperatures across the central and eastern equatorial Pacific then slow the trade winds further, accelerating the pool’s demise. The upwelling stops, and the anchoveta fishery disappears. The ascending air that starts the Walker circulation moves east, and no longer brings rain to Indonesia. And the knock-on effects of the Walker circulation’s easterly movement echo around the Earth, disturbing rainfall systems everywhere, in a pattern that usually peaks in December.

      When the Trend Ends - Get Out JFarrish

      Focus on Lessons Learned versus the Correction

      “When the horse dies, dismount.” This one of my favorite quotes from Theodore Roosevelt. The analogy to owning stocks for me is very applicable. I have changed it to when the trend dies, get out. It always amuses me how many emails I get from Wall Street companies like mutual fund, ETF, and variable annuity companies explaining why you need to stay the course and hold through the downturns in the market. Why is it when the markets do something irrational like fall ten percent in four trading days that everyone wants me to stay the course, hold onto my investments? We all know that Wall Street makes money on money staying invested not in cash. To make their point they attach the long term charts and statistics showing the performance history and what a mistake it would be to sell now. The challenge comes in thinking and investing based on a disciplined strategy such that their opinions don’t influence us or apply to what we do to manage money.
      The chart below is the daily chart of the S&P 500 index since January 1, 2015 to current.
      Chart
      It is simple enough to see from a short term perspective that every trendline within this range has been broken on the downside. That means I should have sold my holdings that are short term in duration. If you are still holding them you are stuck with the dilemma of what to do now. That is a tough call as you took the strategy to a different objective. Now emotions will interfere with the decision process. This is where the trouble begins and it usually doesn’t end well. The weekly chart shows a similar story with the uptrend line broken and the downside is now in play on a mid to long term trendline. Again the trend is the key indicator for the markets based on the time horizon and risk objective you deploy in your strategy. The discipline used to invest your money will be the ultimate decision factor for positive results.
      Too often we make managing money more difficult than it should be. It has nagged me for years why this is true? I can only come up with one simple conclusion… reversal regrets. When we use trend analysis as a strategy we have to define the exit points based on the trend and our discipline. In other words the trend approach has fit our personality and habits. In the event of a move below the trendline, hits our stops or exit points, then reverses and moves higher creates what I call reversal regret.
      Why? I have boiled it down to rational reasons; first, no reentry plans. If our stop is hit and then reverses only to rally and move higher it creates sellers remorse. If we hit the stop and then looked to determine if it reverses what makes for a logical reentry point, we would have a plan in place to own the position again. Thus, dealing with the sellers remorse with a proactive approach to managing our money. Second, it creates a disbelief in the downside wiping out ten percent or more of value quickly. In other words we get desensitized to the fear of big losses. Managing positions and portfolios is a science of habits. Learning good habits is like Boolean logic, IF ____ happens, then _____ action is taken. If SPY moves below the trendline I will sell my position. If the break is false, I will look for the logical reentry point for SPY. Simply put, you are always looking at the worst case and preparing for it, but you are also stating that if the selling is false or overdone there is a defined point to buy the position back. This logical approach sounds so easy to implement, but it is actually one that is extremely difficult to implement consistently. In the heat of battle emotions will trump logic ninety-nine percent of the time. Thus, we have to practice good habits.
      If we practice good habits in managing our money we will “Stay the Course” based on our plans, habits, strategy and discipline and in the process avoid the brain damage of emotional trading. Imagine asking yourself questions about your positions or portfolio when the market is down ten percent? Emotions rule at this points in time… not logic. What are the odds we make good decisions? Logic rules when all is well. Practice setting stops if you can’t pull the trigger to sell. Use buy-stops if you can’t hit the enter key to buy-back positions when the time is appropriate following a false exit point. Build your habits through repetition and asking yourself good questions after each decision is made… what worked and what did not. Learn, adjust and refine your strategy accordingly going forward.
      I don’t like markets that correct ten percent in only a few days. They create unnecessary angst about managing money for me and others. But, if I use good money management habits I will achieve my objectives with clarity and peace of mind. I don’t learn from rationalizing actions… I learn by understanding the action taken based on the market environment during each decision and the results. Taking the time to review, taking notes, understanding and then adjusting according to the analysis will make you a better investor and money manager. The last week has been an extreme teacher on market corrections. Take the time to learn more. The markets trading range has been an opportunity to learn as well over the last five months. Focus on the take-away for managing money versus the mistakes that may have been made. Learning in this market environment is priceless for future benefit. Stay disciplined this rodeo is not over yet.

      Monday, August 24, 2015

      Hillary's Email Scandal Campaign Memo

      Hillary Clinton is reeling from an insurgent Bernie Sanders and a blizzard of negative press on her spiraling email scandal. Campaign spokeswoman Jennifer Palmieri issued a "remain calm!" memo to supporters late yesterday, assuring them that there's nothing to see here. It's all just "misinformation" and "nonsense," she avers, adding that "we have the facts...on our side." They do not. Let's examine Palmieri's email:  


      The basics: Hillary Clinton's email arrangement violated "clear cut" State Department rules, according to federal records-keeping experts.  One expert -- a Clinton supporter -- describes her ex post facto justifications "laughable."  The entire scheme has been improper from start to finish.

      The State Department's request: In a belated move under pressure and a subpoena, Hillary Clinton finally released more than 30,000 pages of work-related emails to the State Department.  She and her team permanently deleted more than 30,000 others, with no oversight or independent supervision, claiming that they were all purely personal in nature.  Subsequent evidence proves that Mrs. Clinton failed to hand over an unknown number of emails explicitly related to her work as Secretary of State.

      Classified emails: Hillary repeatedly claimed that no classified materials were exchanged over her woefully unsecure private server.  "There is no classified material," she told reporters in March.  A review of a just small sample of the emails she didn't destroy by two Obama administration Inspectors General concluded that multiple emails did in fact contain classified material.  A new report indicates that at least two of this handful of examined emails were "top secret" -- highly classified and highly sensitive.

      "It's complicated:"  In an effort to obscure the truth, Clinton's campaign says the classified material in question was made so retroactively, after the fact.  Another line of argument they've advanced is that some of the material may not have been specifically labeled as "classified" at the time. But the IG's referral of this issue for federal investigation stated that the information in question "was classified when they were sent, and are classified now."  According to experts familiar with the laws governing classified material, the "it wasn't marked" excuse is actually no excuse at all, under the law.  It is the responsibility of officials with high clearances to understand what is, and is not, classified, and to act appropriately.  Furthermore, according to a former NSA analyst, it's "obvious" that any "top secret" information would of course qualify as classified.  There would be no inter-agency squabbling or disagreement over that question, clarifying another allegedly "complicating" factor proffered by the campaign.

      No criminal inquiry?  The Clinton campaign spent days savaging the New York Times for referring to the IG's probe referral as "criminal" in nature.  Follow-up reporting has revealed that the ongoing FBI investigation is indeed a criminal one, as confirmed by an FBI spokesman.  The subject of the probe is a series of potential national security breaches resulting from sensitive information passing through an unsecure private email server that Hillary Clinton (a) ordered be set up in contravention of "clear cut" rules, (b) used throughout her tenure at the State Department, (c) ordered be scrubbed by her lawyers, and (d) has lied about repeatedly.

      The Benghazi committee: Dismissed as a partisan "witch hunt" by Team Clinton, it was Rep. Trey Gowdy's special committee into the terrorist attacks in Benghazi -- another subject about which Hillary has lied -- that first discovered the existence the former Secretary of State's private email server.  It's no wonder the Clinton campaign is bitterly unhappy about this unhelpful development, which places Mrs. Clinton in political hot water and now threatens to become legally perilous, as well.  It's true that the central mission of Gowdy's panel is to get the full truth about the deadly Benghazi raid, and to ensure that similar mistakes aren't replicated in the future.  On those fronts, Clinton's State Department has been anything but forthcoming about its own failures, inventing narratives and intimidating internal critics and dissenters.  A review of US embassies and consulates nearly a year after Benghazi determined that 15 American diplomatic facilities in "high risk" hotspots lacked adequate security.  Sec. Clinton did not address or prioritize this problem, even after a sitting ambassador was assassinated by terrorists inside his own compound, along with three other Americans.

      "Fully cooperating:" Hillary has resisted accountability at every turn; after all, according to NBC's sources, ducking accountability is the only plausible reason she would have set up the private server in the first place (her previous excuse turned out to be a provable lie).  Every gesture of compliance and cooperation has come under intense pressure and duress, both political and legal.  She's withheld emails she claimed she'd submitted, and has strenuously resisted parting ways with the server itself, which is now in FBI custody.

      Republicans did it, too: As Ed Morrissey pointed out, the relevant federal rules did not apply to Republican governors, who didn't handle classified -- let alone top secret -- material and US state secrets.  An aide to Jeb Bush also retorted that the former Florida governor released his emails "voluntarily, not under a subpoena," calling the comparison "a joke."  Deliberate misdirection.

      The bottom line: Hillary Clinton and her team have been caught in lie after lie about her improper, national security-endangering email scheme.  Two separate, independent watchdogs decided that there was sufficient impropriety at play to refer the matter to the Justice Department and FBI for a full federal inquiry.  That investigation is underway and is creating new headaches for the Clinton campaign, which has decided to dissemble and dodge -- while continuing to insist that this is all just a giant nothingburger.  The American people -- most of whom do not trust or hold favorable views of Hillary Clinton -- disagree, with a majority supportingthe criminal investigation into her email scandal. 



      Friday, August 21, 2015

      Your kid’s an All Star? Keys to Making Your Kids Apathetic About Faith

      Your kid’s an All Star? Wow! Someday he’ll be average like the rest of us.

      NOTE: A lot of comments have focused on “church.” As one who believes the church is people and not a location or institution, I wish i could have communicated more clearly that this is about we parents living our faith. “Faith activities” and “community” was my intention. Those things come in numerous flavors. Following Jesus is not about sitting in a “church service” once a week. That said, my tongue-in-cheek approach is not intended to offend.
      The church in America is puzzled. Young adults are leaving in droves. Magazines, books and blogs are wagging the finger of blame to point out who is responsible. Some say it is a failure of youth ministry, some point to church budgets and some nail the blame on outdated, unhip worship services. We parents are shocked that our kids just really aren’t all that into Jesus.
      When I look for someone to blame I head into the restroom and look into a mirror. Yupp, there he is. I blame him. That parent looking back at me is where I have to start.
      If you’re a parent, I’m might tick you off in this post. But, hear me out. I think that we, as parents are guilty of some things that make it easy for our kids to put faith low on their priority list.
      Keys to Making Your Kids Apathetic About Faith
      1) Put academic pursuits above faith-building activities. Encourage your child to put everything else aside for academic gain. Afterall, when they are 24 and not interested in faith and following Christ, you’ll still be thrilled that they got an A in pre-calculus, right? Instead of teaching them balance, teach them that all else comes second to academics. Quick … who graduated in the top 5 of your high school class? Unless you were one of them, I bet you have no idea. I don’t.
      2) Chase the gold ball first and foremost. Afterall, your child is a star. Drive 400 miles so your child can play hockey but refuse to take them to a home group bible study because it’s 20 minutes away.
      2b) Buy into the “select,” “elite,” “premier” titles for leagues that play outside of the school season and take pride in your kid wearing the label. Hey now, he’s an All-Star! No one would pay $1000 for their kid to join, “Bunch-of-kids-paying-to-play Team.” But, “Elite?!?” Boy, howdy! That’s the big time!
      2c) Believe the school coach who tells you that your kid won’t play if he doesn’t play in the offseason. The truth is, if your kid really is a star, he could go to Disney for the first week of the season and come back and start for his school team. The determined coach might make him sit a whole game to teach him a lesson. But, trust me, if Julie can shoot the rock for 20 points a game, she’s in the lineup. I remember a stellar soccer athlete who played with my son in high school. Chris missed the entire preseason because of winning a national baseball championship. With no workouts, no double sessions, his first day back with the soccer team, he started and scored two goals. Several hard-working “premier” players sat on the bench and watched him do it. (Chris never played soccer outside the school season but was a perpetual district all-star selection.) The hard reality is, if your kid is not a star, an average of 3 new stars a year will play varsity as freshmen. That means there’s always 12 kids who are the top prospects. Swallow hard and encourage your kid to improve but be careful what you sacrifice to make him a star at little Podunk High here in Maine.
      2d) By the way, just because your kid got a letter inviting him to attend a baseball camp in West Virginia does not mean he is being recruited. You’ll know when recruiting happens. Coaches start calling as regularly as telemarketers, they send your kid handwritten notes and they often bypass you to talk to your kid. A letter with a printed label from an athletic department is not recruitment. When a coach shows up to watch your kid play and then talks to you and your kid, that’s recruiting.
      3) Teach your kid that the dollar is almighty. I see it all the time. Faith activities fly out the window when students say, “I’d like to, but I have to work.” Parents think jobs teach responsibility when, in reality, most students are merely accumulating wealth to buy the things they want. Our kids learn that faith activities should be put aside for the “responsibility” of holding a job. They will never again get to spend 100% of their paychecks on the stuff they want.
      3b) Make them pay outright for faith activities like youth retreats and faith community activities while you support their sports, music, drama and endeavors with checks for camps and “select” groups and expensive equipment. This sends a loud and clear message of what you really want to see them involved in and what you value most. Complain loudly about how expensive a three-day youth event is but then don’t bat an eye when you pay four times that for a three-day sports camp.
      4) Refuse to acknowledge that the primary motivating force in kids’ lives is relationship. Connections with others is what drives kids to be involved. It’s the reason that peer pressure is such a big deal in adolescence. Sending kids to bible classes and lectures is almost entirely ineffective apart from relationship and friendships that help them process what they learn. As kids share faith experiences like retreats, mission trips and student ministry fun, they build common bonds with one another that work as a glue to Christian community. In fact, a strong argument can be made that faith is designed to be lived in community with other believers. By doing all you can to keep your kids from experiencing the bonds of love in a Christian community, you help insure that they can easily walk away without feeling like they are missing anything. Kids build friendships with the kids they spend time with.
      5) Model apathy in your own life. If following Jesus is only about sitting in a church service once a week and going to meetings, young adults opt out. Teenagers and young adults are looking for things that are worth their time. Authentic, genuine, relevant relationships where people are growing in relationship with Jesus is appealing. Meaningless duty and ritual holds no attraction.
      There are no guarantees that your children will follow Christ even if you have a vibrant, purposeful relationship with Him. But, on the other hand, if we, as parents do not do all we can to help our children develop meaningful relationships in Jesus, we miss a major opportunity to lead them and show them the path worth walking.
      I want my kids to see that their dad follows Jesus with everything. I want them to know that my greatest hope for them is that they follow Him too.
      Mt. 6:33 Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don’t worry about missing out. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met. (The Message)
      On a personal note: I know the struggle. My wife and I have lived the struggle firsthand. My son was recruited by a few D1 NCAA schools for baseball and opted instead to attend a small D3 school. My daughter was recruited to play field hockey by a couple D2 programs and ended up playing D3 when the scholarship offer was not enough to make her top school affordable. Both played in “premier” leagues. Both got A’s in high school though we often told them not to stress out too much over it. Both are in honor societies in college and my son now has offers from UNC, Univ. of Wisconsin, Johns Hopkins and Weil Cornell for a Phd in Pharmacology. Neither ever missed a youth group retreat, conference or mission trip because of their sports or academic commitments. Both missed a game or two to attend faith-based activities. Both missed school for family vacations. Both held down part-time jobs in high school and learned to give employers advance notice for upcoming retreats. My son often changed into his baseball uniform at church to arrive in the third inning of Sunday games. Robin and I did all we could to make sure they connected in student ministry even when it meant driving straight from a tournament to a music festival at midnight so that they would not miss out. It was that important to us. My youngest, a culinary student, lost a restaurant job because he went on a mission trip. That’s fine. Thankfully, all 3 have strong faith walks today. That is due only to God’s grace. But, I do believe that our efforts and example helped them long for a community-based faith.
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